Listening

Aristotle said:

"We have two ears and only one tongue so that we would listen more and talk less"

**一个让你测查你的脑袋的动画** a picture to test your brain**

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如果您看到这个女子谈到顺时针方向，您使用的是右脑.
If you see the girl in the picture is rotate clockwise,you are Right-Brain dominant

如果您看到其他的方式，您使用的是左脑.
If you see more than one pattern,you are the Left-Brain dominant

有些人看到两种方式，但大多数人看到的只有一个方向.
Only some people can see two types of patterns~(either they can see the girl rotate clockwise and counterclockwise)~.But majority people only can see the girl rotate clockwise only...

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*~如果你能看到两种方式，恭喜你!!，你能随意控制你左右脑的的运用！
*~If you can see two types of pattern, Congratulate to you!! You can easily control your Left & Right-Brain utilize.
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实验表明，两个不同的两岸，或半球，大脑中负责不同的方式思维。下表说明了之间的分歧左大脑和右大脑思维：
In general the left and right hemispheres of your brain process information in different ways. We tend to process information using our dominant side.This means strengthening your less dominate hemisphere of the brain. Listed below are information processing styles that are characteristically used by your right or left brain hemisphere.

左脑(left hemispheres of your brain )
-Logical 合乎逻辑的
-Sequential 序贯
-Rational 理性的
-Analytical 综合
-Objective 客观(Looks at Parts)

右脑(right hemispheres of your brain )
-Random 随机
-Intuitive 直观
-Holistic 整体
-Synthesizing 分析
-Subjective 主观(Looks at wholes)

“大多数人有以上其中一个明显偏好的思维风格。然而，有些人更是同样善于两种思维模式。一般上，学校往往倾向于左大脑的思维方式，而淡化了右大脑的思维方式。左大脑的学术科目集中在逻辑思维，分析和准确性。另一方面，右大脑的学术科目则集中于美学，感(触)觉，音乐和创造性。”
"Most individuals have a distinct preference for one of these styles of thinking.
Some, however, are more whole-brained and equally adept at both modes.
In general, schools tend to favor left-brain modes of thinking, while downplaying the right-brain ones.
Left-brain scholastic subjects focus on logical thinking, analysis, and accuracy.
Right-brained subjects, on the other hand, focus on aesthetics, feeling,music and creativity."

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P.S.Can't see two types of patterns? Here is a simple tips to help you...
附笔：看不到两个不同旋转的方式？ 这里有些简单小贴士来帮您...

~我这里有个很简单的方法，教你们如何看到图中那女子顺时和逆时的旋转；

~首先，根据你第一次所看到的旋转方向，然后慢慢的闭上你的眼睛，在这一刻集中的想象她逆转的方向的样子**(你必须不停想象)** 再睁开你的眼，看看是否旋转的方向改变了...

~Here got a very simple method try to help you to see two types of rotation on that picture:
Firstly,according to the first time rotate direction that you see. Then close your eyes slowly; at this moment,you must concentrate your mind to imagine how she rotate in an inverse direction **(YOU MUST NON-STOP TO IMAGINE IT)** then open you eyes again, see whether the rotate direction has been change or not...

~❤Happy Father's Day❤~父亲节快乐~❤

ღ~15June 2008 ,Today is father's day...Father's day is a special day for everyone...

My parents foster me grow up, Mum & Dad...They gave me a life, an opportunity to come to this world...Without them, Today will I will not exist at here...♥

To my respect and love father:
Daddy, thank you so much!
♡~Thanks for you foster me ...♡
♡~Thanks for you protect me...♡
♡~Thanks for you work hard to earn money for our family...♡
♡~Thanks for you to give us a good life,food and education...♡
♡~Thanks for you spend for us without reciprocate...♡
♡~Thanks a lot for you...♡

Dear Father, someday your son(Me) will requite you well, just like now you treat us...I will remember your loving-kindness forever...

♡♡♡♡♡ ~~~ Dad, I love you so much~~~♡♡♡♡♡♡♡

♂~表白就像一场赌注~♀

表白就像一场赌注,
要不就从此牵手在一起,
要不就逃避对方,以免尴尬,
也可能对方婉拒你,还可以做朋友,
但是不如从前好,说话也有些顾虑,
更也许,
他还是跟你无话不谈.
但他只当你是懂得欣赏他的知己,
即使过普通朋友,
也绝非情人...
所以有人不甘心只当朋友,
有人不愿意冒险示意,
爱一个人而那个人不爱你是很让人难受的，但更加悲哀和痛苦的是，爱一个人，却永远都沒勇气告诉他。
但是有更多的人,也因为不曾表白,
或许就这样错过了一个自己想爱的人或喜欢自己的人
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常常听到的一句：时间不等人，岁月不留人

自己幸福是不是光靠等待而得到的，尽管你的幸福还是个未知数，你如果想要的得到；就得要靠自己去争取的。
假如你都不曾开始，那你又如何会知道有什么样的结果呢？
无论结果是好或是坏，那些都是其次，
至少你知道自己曾经争取，努力过。。。不会遗憾。。。

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当有个人爱上你,而你也觉得他不错,
那并不代表你会选择他...
你说:要找个你很爱的人才会谈恋爱...
当对方问你怎样才算很爱很爱的时候,
你无法回答他...因为你自己也不知道...
我们总是以为会找到个自己很爱很爱的人,
可是后来才发现自己多天真!
假如没有开始,你怎么知道自己会不会很爱那个人呢?

❤۰•●如果你♀和我♂之间有100步的距离你，只为我要跨出第1步，我就會朝你的方向走其余的99步●，，●•۰❤




P.S.：我在这里送给失意或失恋的男生的话。你们要记住哦！

不管怎樣，男人始终要把理想和事业为第一，不要沉醉在风花雪月之中，深陷其中，美好的东西总是很脆弱的，不要被感情磨得沒有了生活的激情，要不断充实自己，学习知识；裝酷和表面的潇洒都是暫時的，当有一天失去感情，你会发现自己真的才叫是一无所有了！
人要学会主宰自己的感情，你才会过得精彩，快乐。。自己一切的一切，都在自己的掌控；所以，别倒过来让你的感情来主宰你自己，那样只让你会痛苦，不快乐！